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And that still absolutely how. It may not even have hostile intent. In your opinion, is it possible to reclaim the word "slut"? It always leads to policing and judgment and shame, even when the initial intent is lighthearted or neutral.

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There certainly have been good-faith efforts to rehabilitate the word. That was hoe snarky retort to guys in the audience who were thinking she was a gos. I absolutely recognize that for many individual women, embracing the label "slut" or ho can be empowering for them. I want to pause and [think about] whether this strategy on a mass scale is a good one. Will it actually reduce slut-bashing and slut-shaming? After speaking with girls and women who have attempted, on Slut hos individual level, to reclaim the word "slut," I conclude that, right now, this is not a safe or effective strategy. My concern is that until we get closer to sexual and racial equality, hso ourselves "sluts" and "hoes" Slht open up new opportunities for harassment and assault for Slut hos women.

So what can we do to combat slut-shaming and slut-bashing? Also, I work for Planned Parenthood Federation of Americaand I feel that we need to do what Planned Parenthood does best which is to talk about female sexuality without any judgment. These are concrete ways to destigmatize female sexuality which then leads to diminishing the culture of slut-shaming. How does our slut-shaming culture contribute to a culture of violence against women? The element of agency gives ammunition to people who want to judge, shame and police the slut or the ho.

If being labelled "slut" is so undesirable, why is it that being perceived as not sexual is also so undesirable? That is so true. We are evaluated and judged through a sexual prism no matter what we do. Because just existing while female puts us at risk of being evaluated on a sexual scale. This interview has been edited and condensed. Respect for women starts NOW. Gordon One night during dinner my friend and I asked her year-old son to tell us something interesting about school. And how do we talk to our kids about it? The first time I was called a slut was because a boy asked me out, and I dared to say no. Girls will often join in with their male cohorts in calling girls sluts as insults.

Maybe because it gives them an excuse not to put out. Maybe to bond with others by insulting a third party. Guys will call girls sluts for the same reason they do anything sexist. Because it gives them power.

It makes sex shameful. Even if they do jos around. So what do we do when our children Slut hos discomfort, judgment, or even disgust when a girl they know is very liberal with her affection? Ask them, why do you think she does that? What do you think is going on with her? This is important because first, it can engender compassion for the person. Second, it can make them think twice about their own choices and motivation.